Contentment Acres

More Photos

2012-02-11T06:00:00.001-05:00

Bible Study Time (cell phone pict)

an interruption in work for some snuggles

Hannah sleeping on me

Maggie insists on being treated like one of the children!

horse has new shoes

Amen!

Sunset on the James River

2012-02-10T13:59:00.000-05:00

Photos

2012-02-10T13:49:00.001-05:00

Clint pushing the cart in Sam's Club.

I have been sorting through our books. We have approximately 2,000 we moved from the house to one of the sheds. I am trying to reduce the amount and organize it a little better. I can only work on it when I have the time for it, and there is so much to do still. I hope to be finished by mid-spring.

After my hour and 15 minute workout, the girls like to do one of their own!

Hannah is OUT!
I love the grey at his temples!

Around Here February 2012

2012-02-10T13:18:00.006-05:00

Today we are taking it a little easier. I'd say we were taking half the day off homeschool, but then I'd be discounting the Valentine's Day arts and crafts we are doing after lunch. Brandon and Amanda will be joining us. I cherish the moments when all of my children are together. Next week, we plan to bake and decorate heart shaped sugar cookies to take to a neighbor.

Clint plans to work this weekend and is hoping to find time to put a vent in the pipe going from the downstairs toilet. We've had that toilet closed since fall. It seems nearly everyone believes having a family our size (9 people) with only one working toilet is some great hardship! It isn't! Sometimes there is a line, but more often than not, the toilet is free. No one dilly dallies on the throne, but it really isn't that big of a deal.

Brandon is in the top of his Public Speaking class in college. He is doing this while maintaining his part-time job. He is in an accelerated program which means he does a lot of work in a very short period of time. His homework is often reading several chapters, doing the lesson review questions, writing an essay, and preparing for the bi-weekly tests. As his teacher for PreK-12, I know Brandon's strengths and weaknesses. I know Brandon despises language. He would rather work twice as long in math and science lessons. On top of his college lessons, he is also working on his own game development.

Amanda graduated last year. Her homeschool course work was finished in the summer of 2010. She took a high school course to get a diploma after that. She took the entire four year course in 16 weeks with a straight A average. She graduated that course in early 2011. She is not settled on what she wants to do. She is considering enrolling in the local cosmetology school. She feels that would allow her in the future to make an income from home while raising her children. We are in prayer for God's leading on this.

Joshua is zipping right along in his homeschool course work. He is highly motivated to finish as soon as he can so he can have the summer free of school! He has shot up in height and is such a fun loving young man. Joshua is very sharp and witty, but talking with his siblings (or cutting jokes) often earns him reprimands.

Caleb is an auditory and kinesthetic learner. He is not an academic!! Caleb has to be motivated to keep progressing in his school work, and he often feels frustrated . However, he is the first one to pitch in to help on a difficult project. When I see Caleb wielding a hammer, I think about the long line of Bailey's who have chosen construction for their profession. He does not mind doing difficult work for long periods if he is building or fixing something. I think Caleb's biggest weakness with his schooling right now is his "I can't" attitude, and constantly comparing his performance to everyone else's.

We use bunk beds to save space. We have very specific and strict rules for them. Well, sometimes children do not obey. Bethany was in a sitting position when she swung the upper half of her body over her rail to "surprise" her little sisters. She swung herself over with too much force and fell out of the bed head first on February 1. The mothering intuition had me knowing the thump I heard was a bad one, so I ran to her. She was on the floor crying and checked out OK initially for head injury, but her neck was hurting. She also busted her mouth, bloodied her nose, and bit her tongue. We had her transported by ambulance on a backboard as a precaution for spinal injuries. This was one of those situations where we felt everything was OK, but if we were wrong, the consequences would be horrible. Better safe than sorry! After a x-rays and CT scan, she checked out fine. She learned another lesson about obedience: You may not always understand why God (or a parent) tells you something to do, but there is a reason for it. That is the first bunk bed accident we have ever had. Thank you to those who were praying for her.

Emily was a hit with the EMTs. Our "unsocialized" homeschooled 4 year old held open the door for them each time they went in and out for equipment. She greeted them, introduced herself and her siblings, asked their name, and asked questions about their job. Emily complimented them over and over on their "COOL TRUCK!" She asked me when it was over if they would bring her sister back :-)! She has announced she wants to be a doctor so she can help hurt people. Hannah slept through all of it!

Hannah has developed a fear of the dark, so we are sure to leave the light on for her. She is in that stage between needing a nap and not needing one. Some days she just can't make it to her bedtime. If she falls asleep too early, she wakes up in the middle of the night and gets into the bed with me. I am a light sleeper, so I hold her until she is out and then nudge Clint who carries her back to bed. This week, she has dropped the thing about spiders but now there is an alligator living in our pantry. It eats peanut butter and is missing one leg. It does not have parents and will not eat us. :-) (She is developing her ability to imagine outside of her world. Our imagination allows us to create, solve problems, and set goals and reach for them.)

Emily and Hannah are in a stage of exploration and discovery. They can reach more, do more, and ask better questions. It is such a fun time! They are excited about everything around them. I am looking forward to doing some unit studies with them on different topics. They love to write, draw, color, build, and especially help with anything I am doing. Clint bought them their own set of play tools so they can work beside him on projects. They are also learning more about appropriate behavior and boundaries. Like, they can't push a chair to the pantry and get the Goldfish crackers and eat the whole bag! :-) They can continue to pull every stitch of clothing out of their dressers, but I will continue to insist they fold and put them back.

They share a bed which means we hear a lot of giggling at bedtime! Clint and I don't let them hear us, but their silliness makes us laugh too! Joshua and Caleb can be heard whispering to each other after hours. Sometimes they will put on a Bible adventure story to listen to as they drift off. Bethany tells her little sisters stories from her bunk to help them fall asleep. We love the way our children bond from sharing bedrooms.

Psalm 37:4-5 Delight thyself also in the LORD: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart. Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass

7 Year Old Georgia Girl Fights off Kidnapper at Walmart

2012-02-09T21:39:00.000-05:00

Wrapping Paper Tube Battle Feb 2012

2012-02-09T20:26:00.000-05:00

These pictures were taken tonight. The battle erupted quickly, so all I had time to grab was my cell phone which explains the picture quality.

Hannah was battling against him too, but the commotion got to be too much for her. She ran into his arms which left him defenseless until I rescued her. I left him to fend for himself! :0)

I always try to give Clint a small hint that the children are planning something for him. It lets him prepare for it mentally so he can be ready to play hard.

1 Corinthians 13: Bible Summary and Study on Love

2012-02-09T10:02:00.001-05:00

1 Corinthians 13: Bible Summary and Study on Love

The link above will take you to a Bible lesson with life application on the kind of godly love that should be present in all of our relationships.

"Jesus said in John 13:35 “By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.” Making the choice to love others is not only a suggestion given in Paul’s Bible study on love in 1 Corinthians 13, it is also a command given by our Lord to those who would call themselves Christians."

The New Wood Stove

2012-02-08T12:30:00.002-05:00

As many of you know, we lost both of our wood stoves in the barn fire last February. Due to the stressful time we were going through, we had not reinstalled ours that winter. It was stored in the barn. When the second story collapsed in the fire, it crushed the wood stove. The fire was also so hot, the cast iron cracked in some places.

This is the wood stove we replaced our house wood stove with. I was asked earlier in the season how we liked it and did not comment much because we had not used it then. Our unseasonably warm winter has not allowed us to really try it out, but what we see of it, we like. It really puts out the heat to warm our entire home. We use pedestal fans to push the heat into other rooms. At night, Clint cuts the damper back and that keeps the wood burning all night. He has coals in the morning that make getting a fire going very easy. It is capable of putting out 65,000 BTU and is rated to heat a 2,000 square foot home.

I have not tried cooking on this one like I did the other one, but may give it a whirl soon.

Walter Reed Birthplace

2012-02-06T12:43:00.000-05:00

Walter Reed was the youngest of five children and became doctor at the age of 18 1/2. He was and still is the youngest MD to graduate from the University of Virginia. He is credited with confirming the theory that mosquitoes were the cause of the spread of yellow fever. When you start to think your home is not large enough, take a trip to a historical home owned by an average person. Space was used very efficiently to create a comfortable home. We hope to take the whole family to tour the inside of the house sometime soon.

Neat Fish Tank

2012-02-06T12:13:00.000-05:00

Amanda loves this neat looking fish hotel.
It is stackable and also comes in black. I think a group of them would look nice.
The plastic bowl comes out to be used separately. You can paint the outside for a different look.

Super Bowl 2012 Half Time Show at Contentment Acres

2012-02-05T23:46:00.000-05:00

The pictures are dark and blurry, but you get the idea.

Emily and Hannah playing at half time

Emily, Hannah, and Bethany at half time

The half time show at Contentment Acres went into over time!

Paperbackswap.com Link

2012-02-05T11:31:00.001-05:00

Wendy wants you to know about PaperBackSwap, the biggest book-swapping site in America. If you're a reader, you know how books can accumulate after you have read them. They pile up and gather dust, and you know you won't read them again. You can try to sell them to used-book stores, but you won't get very much for them, even if they are in perfect condition. PaperBackSwap is a better way!

All you have to do is create an account for FREE, list your books that you are ready to share, and send them out to other members when they are requested. Yes, you pay the postage to send your books out (between 2 and 3 dollars for an average-sized book), BUT you get a Book Credit for sending each book (each Book Credit is good for one book - you can order from any member in the club), AND when you request books for yourself, the senders pay the postage to send those books to you.

It costs nothing to participate, except for postage - there are no membership fees. You even get 2 startup Book Credits free if you are the first account at your household - you can use those credits to order 2 books for yourself, right away!

Give your books a better life - no more languishing on dusty bookshelves! Find new readers for them and get new books for yourself. Send a book, get a book. It's easy and it's free!

You can even print the postage right onto the address label, and mail the book from your outgoing mailbox or any blue mailbox.

Wendy is a good friend to let you in on this! If you do sign up, please use the following link:

http://www.paperbackswap.com/index.php?r_by=contentmentacres@yahoo.com

Housecleaning Tip: Libman Lobby Broom

2012-02-03T11:52:00.002-05:00

I love the Libman Upright Dustpan and Lobby Broom. The dustpan handle is just right to keep you from bending way down which is a wonderful benefit when you are expecting a baby. The dustpan bucket holds enough to keep you from running back and forth to the trash can. I use the dustpan with one of Libman's Extra Wide Angle Broom.

The small broom that comes with the Upright Dustpan is fine for quick sweep ups. An averaged sized adult would find it hard on the back to sweep an entire room with the small broom, but it is the perfect size for younger children. Bethany, Emily and Hannah say sweeping is much easier without them having to balance a larger, heavier broom. The small broom is great for adults doing quick touch ups too.

We have several of both in our home to sweep our hardwood floors.

Rural Tagging

2012-02-01T17:21:00.000-05:00

I wanted the play area in the woods to be high visibility because we have had some issues with four wheelers and poachers. We had some old spray paint that was going to go to waste. I can't recycle the cans until they are empty. So, I thought I'd knock out two birds with one stone.

I had one rule: "Don't let me see it from the house." Sigh, I can see a little bit of it from the house. LOL! You can not walk through that area and not know it is a play area for children though. They all got into it from the 19 year old down to the then 2 year old. They had so much fun creating art in their play area, I might give them the leftover brush paint too.

Hannah's Short Speech to Clint

2012-01-29T20:46:00.000-05:00

Hannah (just turned 3) in a heartfelt conversation at bedtime: "Dad, I do NOT like 'piders. I do NOT like big 'piders or small 'piders. I do NOT like mom 'piders, dad 'piders, or kid 'piders. I DO NOT like black widow 'piders."

Hannah has not liked spiders since she was about 18 months old.

Better Today

2012-01-28T12:11:00.000-05:00

Thank you for the prayers. This isn't going to be something that gets better overnight, but I did better yesterday and am doing better today.

How my child went from home school to Harvard and yours can, too.

2012-01-28T11:26:00.000-05:00

"Dakota Root doesn't just prove the success of home-schooling. She proves the success of the individual over a dependence upon government.

She proves the success of alternative education, parental freedom, and school choice.

Her tremendous success as a scholar and athlete proves that it doesn't take a village, or a state-licensed teacher, or a teacher’s union, to educate a child. It just takes two caring, motivated parents with a willingness and courage to seize control and take responsibility for their children’s future.

Dakota’s story proves the American Dream is alive, if only we’d stop depending on government to save us."

To read the entire story, click here.

Keep the Faith

2012-01-27T12:18:00.000-05:00

(not our image, not sure where to give credit)

Thank you to Theresa A. for sharing!

Lowly in Spirit

2012-01-26T21:47:00.000-05:00

My past had me not trusting people as it was, but what little I had left is completely shattered. There are two people responsible for bringing me here. They come from the same place and have the same behaviors. One resents the other for what they did when their behavior is worse. One befriended and used me to try to persuade my husband to give them what they wanted. The other did it behind my back while pretending everything was OK to my face. I survived one blow to have another come along and knock me down even harder. The cruelest assaults come from people who say they care and then hurt you anyway. At this particular moment in time where the first wound has been reopened and the second is fresh, I wish I had never met either one of them.

I have always believed if you treated people well and tried your best to do right, you would be blessed for it. I no longer believe that. Life sucker punches you. Hard. Sometimes back to back.

I am thoroughly whipped by life at the moment. There is absolutely nothing left of me to even try to help myself up, so I am counting on this:

Psalm 34:18 The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those crushed in spirit.

bRoKeN

2012-01-25T15:10:00.000-05:00

I found out five days ago I have been lied to repeatedly by another person I trusted. That person had lied to me about something from 2005-2007. I found out, forgave them, and gave them another chance. Well, they did it again. To my face, they were pretending to care while they were harming me behind my back. My heart hurts; my mind is overwhelmed. If it had been one thing, I think I'd be OK, but stuff just keeps coming. Some of it is big and and some of it is small, but in the last fifteen months there have been many, many stressful situations close together.

God says to forgive, show them love at every turn, and work with them. So, I am trying. The anger pops up now and again but that is easier to deal with than the deep hurt. This has reduced me to bouts of heavy sobbing every day. I have had some very low points, but have never been this bRoKeN. I have barely been able to function the last few days. It's like my mind and body are demanding a "time out" for a little while.

Still, God is God and He sits on His throne. I cling to His promises each day and seek Him out for reassurance when I grow weary. I am casting my burdens at His feet...and often picking them back up ....and learning how to drop them yet again. I know each trial serves a purpose and is molding me more like my Father for the future He has ordained for me. He puts my tears into His bottle; they do not escape His notice or concern. He is acquainted with all my ways; nothing I feel or do surprises Him so I can freely share my heart with Him without holding back. My Father knows the good, the bad, and the ugly in me. I can be me when I go to Him and He will not turn me away.

Since I accepted Jesus' blood atonement for my sins, He calls me His child. I know nothing can ever separate me from Him. I know in His wisdom He does things that don't make sense to me just as I make decisions for my children that do not make sense to them now.

He is God and He has opened the door on all of these challenging things for a plan and a purpose. It's a difficult time, but I know something good is being accomplished through it. I have been knocked down hard over and over again. I am reaching out for the Lord to put me back on my feet so I can continue this race.

Father, please send me a period of rest. Help me to truly forgive those who hurt me. Forgive me for where I have failed and keep me humble enough to apologize when I have wronged others. Strengthen me and renew my focus on the priorities You have for me. Let me let go of my "to do" list and replace it with Yours. Open my eyes and heart to let me learn all I can through this period so I can become more like You. Don't let fear of more disappointment rule in my heart, but let me treat and receive every single person the way You want. Show me when to trust and when to question. Teach me when to hold on and when to let go of relationships. Let me grow as close to you as I possibly can while on this earth. Please don't let me disappoint You.

Psalms 147:3 He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.

Psalms 55:22 Cast your burden on the LORD, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved.

“Leave the broken, irreversible past in God’s hands, and step out into the invincible future with Him.” ~ Oswald Chambers

Preschool Activity: Making Paint with M&Ms

2012-01-21T10:20:00.000-05:00

http://www.teachpreschool.org/2012/01/mixing-up-bright-and-colorful-mm-paint-in-preschool/

This is a neat preschool activity that involves sorting, measuring, color recognition, and art followed by an easy clean up.

Communication

2012-01-20T13:13:00.001-05:00

Per our annual tradition, we took from Thanksgiving week until January 2. Now we are back to the full schedule and that means I am very busy. If you send a message (through whatever means) and I don't answer, I probably haven't seen it. Sometimes I have a couple of minutes at a time between checking math problems for the middles (Joshua, Caleb, Bethany) or helping the littles (Emily and Hannah). That allows me some sporadic use of Facebook.

Don't let inconsistencies in how I keep in touch make you think I am avoiding you. I try to put people/relationships before things and tasks because if we aren't doing that, how can we be living for Christ?! But, I also have to teach and provide my family with a clean home, clean clothes, and healthy meals. I need my friends to keep me going on the hard days, and there have been a lot of those lately. So, if you don't hear from me, check in again. It's always welcome and appreciated even if I don't say the words.

Clint's Thoughts on Life with Seven Children

2012-01-19T10:54:00.001-05:00

Clint's co-worker compared our lives with seven children to another friend without children. The man asked Clint if he missed traveling, fancier clothes, nicer cars, etc. Clint said "There is not a single thing that I would rather have than my children. Trips are a few times a year and are soon a memory. Possessions don't last. My children bring me joy every day and will continue to do so for an eternity. I am not missing out on anything. I already have everything."

At 43, we are at a stage where most of our friends have children who have left home for college or have families of their own. Many times we have heard "I wish we would have had more children," "I miss having young children at home," or "Your family has so much fun together." We have also heard "I love being at your house because the children make me feel young again." These comments remind us of how blessed we are to be where we are. They help us to not take our children for granted when things are chaotic.

Clint and I are very thankful for the Holy Spirit's leading to let the Father control our family size. We have never regretted it. Even with the miscarriages and hyperemesis gravidarum, we know there is a plan and a purpose for our good and God's glory. Our daily lives are filled with laughter and a sense of purpose. We are joyfully living out the calling God gave us knowing there will be an eternal reward.

You Are Worthy

2012-01-18T10:33:00.000-05:00

"A well-known speaker started off his seminar holding up a $20.00 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this $20 bill?" Hands started going up. He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this." He proceeded to crumple up the $20 dollar bill. He then asked, "Who still wants it?" Still the hands were up in the air. "Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty. "Now, who still wants it?" Still the hands went into the air.

"My friends, we have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20. Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions the circumstances that come our way or the decisions we make. We feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless to the One Who Redeemed YOU. The worth of our lives comes not in what we do or who we know, but through Christ. You are Special-Don't EVER forget it."

This should also affect how we view others.

Jesus first
Others second
Yourself last

In Praise of Homeschools by Aaron Smith

2012-01-16T11:59:00.000-05:00

"The most admirable group of entrepreneurs is perhaps the least appreciated. Homeschool parents, or parentrepreneurs, are not waiting for politicians and technocrats to fix broken systems of education. Rather, they are eschewing the status quo and finding innovative ways to advance the intellectual, emotional, and spiritual growth of their children. Unlike their counterparts in the public sector, parentrepreneurs have achieved astounding results with humble budgets." ... Read the rest at: http://mises.org/daily/5866/In-Praise-of-Homeschools

Why I Hate Religion by Spoken Word

2012-01-12T09:53:00.000-05:00

This is how Clint and I feel about religion vs a relationship with Jesus Christ.

In This Home...

2012-01-12T09:52:00.005-05:00

not our picture, not sure where to give credit

Breastfeeding in Public

2012-01-11T11:52:00.003-05:00

not our picture, not sure where to give credit

I have seven children and have breastfed all of them. I have breastfed in public hundreds of times including in the pew at church, at parks, restaurants, stores, theme parks, events, etc. Not once have I been mistreated or had a single word spoken against what I was doing. I haven't even had a dirty look aimed at me. Even though I wear a DD cup, I never showed as much cleavage as either of these women. The Biblical standard of modesty would have both women covering up.

You can breastfeed discreetly. It's a choice you make to show respect to others. The only time anyone knew I was breastfeeding was when a woman leaned in to see the baby's face. Even though I was in a public place, she apologized profusely for invading my privacy. I was not offended.

The picture has a good point, but it misses a bigger one: Respect goes both ways. The goal of breastfeeding should be to give your baby the best nutrition not to push limits and challenge other's views.

Quote on Difficult Circumstances

2012-01-11T10:22:00.001-05:00

"There is no circumstance, no trouble, no testing, that can ever touch me until, first of all, it has gone past God and past Christ until it came right through to me. If it has come that far, it has come with a great purpose which I might not understand at the moment. But, I refuse to become panicky as I lift my eyes up to Him and accept it as coming from the Throne of God for some great purpose of blessing to my own heart." ~Alan Redpath

Unwind

2012-01-09T15:26:00.000-05:00

http://momastery.com/blog/2012/01/09/766/

This applies to all relationships, not just marriage.

Thank you to Jen C. for sharing!

January 2012

2012-01-06T11:21:00.004-05:00

We were ahead of schedule with the school work, so we took the whole month of December off of homeschool. It was a nice break! We baked and decorated cookies, decorated the house, played games, and enjoyed the down time with each other.

Per tradition, Clint and I took down the Christmas decorations while the children were playing with their toys. I have found it is easier to do it while Clint can help. If I wait, it is hard for me to find time to get to it.

We started school back on the third of this month which was when Clint had to go back to work. Being on a schedule is easier than not. My children know what to do on a school day and do not usually have to be prompted. Being off the routine is more challenging. The house gets messier quicker, and I have to remind everyone of the things they need to do to keep our family functioning.

Clint has to work some overtime so we can redo our bathroom. We are down to one working toilet. The bathroom with the working toilet had an electrical problem several weeks ago. So, the light doesn't work. We have all of the items to redo the bathroom already, but we did not anticipate a wiring issue too. Now we have to tear out walls too.

My homeschooled son, Brandon, continues to be in the top of his classes in college!!! He aced another math test yesterday! He was the only one to solve a tough Geometry question in class, so his teacher gave him 10 points to apply to any exam. He plans on adding to the final. When he succeeds, I feel like I succeed because I taught him. I knew he was capable of this, but I did not expect the satisfaction it would bring me. Reaping the blessings of obeying God's leading to homeschool has been very sweet! Seeing Brandon excel in academics has renewed my determination to give my other children the best education I can.

I asked Brandon if he felt his homeschool education prepared him well for college. He quickly and firmly answered "YES!" He said he felt it prepared him better than the other student's experience. He is appalled by the rudeness and lack of interest. He told me he wants to give his children what I gave him.

Amanda graduated high school last year and is planning to start college soon. She has been praying about what to do. She has a couple of things she is contemplating. I am enjoying the blessing of extra time with her.

I had to cut Hannah's hair last night. Her fine blonde hair is still sparse but she had a long lock of hair that was resting on her forehead. She came to me after I trimmed the other girl's bangs and said "Please cut mine too, Mom!" I tried talking her out of it four times; she was not having it. I saved the bits of hair. The other day, as I cuddled her to me, I said "You are my baby, Hannah." She said "I am not a baby, Mom. I don't wet my pants anymore; I am a big girl!"

I have one child leaving behind his childhood as he starts his adult life. I have another child leaving behind her babyhood. It's nice to see both of those periods of development at the same time. It's also a little sad. I am enjoying my mothering adventures!

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Clint and I love our friends. When we get knocked down, they reach out a loving hand, pull us to our feet, dust us off, give us a hug, and say "Go forward; you can do this!" We know some of the best people in the world. Thank you for all of your kindness.

"If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you." – Matthew 6:14

Being Silly

2012-01-06T10:33:00.000-05:00

Amanda

Bethany

Caleb

He cracked himself up!

Even Maggie participated!

Gingerbread House

2012-01-05T17:53:00.000-05:00

Clint works a lot, so I try to take a backseat and give him opportunities to do things with the children.
A wife should make her husband feel important in her life and in the lives of their children.
Little things, like gingerbread house making, can end up yielding big things.

They made the gingerbread house, let me take a few pictures of it, and then proceeded to eat all of it in about 15 minutes!

Amanda's shirt: She thought that and about 15 other "crinkle" blouses had been lost in the barn fire. She found them squished into the back of a chest in her room. She was so happy; she came downstairs wearing one to show us she found them.

My Very Favorite People

2012-01-05T09:18:00.000-05:00

My "old" man :0)...

pretending to be a young man!

wheeeeeeeeeee!

my young men

This stinker was hoping to run into me!

He forgets I can move quick when I need it!

Joshua and Caleb

May they fight battles together and not fight each other.

We make them pause by the front door before they go to the tree.
Note Hannah's face! Her Gramma Susan calls it her "poogy" face.

Clint and I are very playful with each other. He picks on me relentlessly sometimes.

He thinks it is funny to get me riled up. So, I hit him. :0)

Lose My Soul-Toby Mac

2012-01-03T09:56:00.002-05:00

My Brave Son Caleb

2012-01-03T09:02:00.000-05:00

Caleb is our youngest son. The zip line was challenging for him, but made himself do it anyway.

Not only did he do the zip line, but he conquered his fear.

He will draw on this experience the next time he faces a challenge.

Team Asbell

2012-01-02T08:51:00.001-05:00

Emily wanted to try it. Clint started her off in the middle of the cable for a slower and shorter ride. In case her arms grew tired, Clint ran beside her holding onto her legs.

On her third try, she climbed the big ladder and rode the entire length of the cable.

On her fourth, she told me she didn't want help any more.

Already a Better Year by Clint

2012-01-01T21:23:00.003-05:00

When last year started off so poorly and this year has started off so great, it is hard not to note the stark contrast. Around mid-December last year, we knew our baby had died, and Wendy would miscarry. It was a long wait. The baby passed from her body on New Year's Day. It was a day of sadness. We figured the year could only get better from there. 2011 was not an easy year. We lost our child, ended a negative relationship, saw many friends lose their battles with disease, had the large loss due to the barn fire followed by livestock and wildlife issues, were involved in three car accidents, had a long term injury due to an accident, dealt with a flood, had our nerves shaken by an earthquake, and had some damage due to a hurricane. Then Wendy broke her heel. Just as we thought things were getting easier and we were looking forward to the holidays, more hurt and disappointment walked into our lives. Most would say 2011 was a horrible year for us.

It was tough, but through it all, we saw God's blessings. We have seen spiritual growth not only in my and Wendy's life, but also in our children's. Team Asbell bonded even closer as we tackled the clean up from the fire and began the process of restoring our lives. Blessings poured out upon us as we handled the insurance claim and reached out to help others. Friendships were strengthened. Wendy and I have grown even closer to one another. The trials and blessings were beautifully mixed.

Yesterday, Wendy and I got a rare chance to sleep late. Together we went out to a late brunch and had a nice, uninterrupted time talking. Later at home, we enjoyed watching our children play with their new Christmas toys. Then they took turns racing down the zip line I installed. We had a bonfire and cook out followed by some game time indoors after it became too chilly outside. Our home was filled with activity and delight.

Last night, we rang in the 2012 with a lot of laughter and playfulness followed by prayers and rejoicing for all we experienced in 2011. In the last few seconds of the year due to a mix up in instructions, we were running to grab the grape juice someone stuck in the freezer. As we raced the clock together to serve sparkling grape "slushy" to everyone, we laughed at ourselves! It was a hilarious moment and a perfect end to a challenging year. Today, after worship and a trip down memory lane, we spent the day focusing on what is good in our life. Our day has been filled with thanksgiving, rejoicing, and lots of love and laughter. It's already a better year!

Psalms51:10-11 Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me.

Happy New Year's Eve

2011-12-31T20:42:00.001-05:00

half moon as seen from Contentment Acres 12/31/2011

We hope everyone has a fun and safe New Year's Eve!

May the Lord bless you and yours in 2012!

Around Here

2011-12-28T14:59:00.014-05:00

December has just been a blur. We had so much happen and so much to do.

Christmas was different this year for Clint and I. It was a time of reflecting on everything that has happened this year and God's presence and goodness through it all. It has not been an easy year, but we have survived it with our faith and marriage stronger than ever. God is good!

Clint and I decided to order the Christmas presents online rather than battle the traffic, crowds and long checkout lines. It worked out! We found everything online, and it all arrived in time!! By combining orders and using coupon codes, we were able to spend less on shipping than we would have in gas. Clint has told me he wants to shop online every year from now on.

As we read over their Christmas wish lists, it became very evident our middle children are growing up. Joshua and Caleb asked for night vision goggles, rifles, bows and arrows, a catapult, spy pens, Army medic bags, etc. Bethany asked for sing-a-longs, play make up, a collectible miniature doll, and a yo yo with trick book. Gone are the Matchbox cars, superheroes, baby dolls, and tea sets.

Emily surprised us with a request for a set of play tools so she can "work beside Dad." Brandon looked at me and said "Well, you know she has the Bailey builder gene!" Clint did not hesitate to provide her with her own set of tools so she can be his buddy on around household projects. Hannah is enjoying the play tools too! And, Caleb tortured Hello Kitty (see picture below) with them.

For all of the children, Clint purchased and is installing a zip line. If they like it enough, he will install a longer one. It would be very pleasant to go from one end of our property to the other on a zip line! I am not going to be able to use it until my shoulder is healed, but one day, I'll be zipping along, laughing like crazy and hoping to not fall on my big rear!

Hello Kitty Torture

2011-12-27T23:46:00.003-05:00

The next time Caleb tells me he is going to play with his little sisters, I'll pay attention. :-D

Higher Quality Christmas Photo

2011-12-27T20:50:00.008-05:00

This is a higher quality photo for those who asked to print one out. I had not realized the camera was on the wrong setting for prints. It was set on "e-mail quality." Clint retook the picture after we realized the error.

The quilt was made by Gramma Susan Selvage. We love her!!

Clint is helping Hannah run the impact wrench beside me. She jumps and then throws back her head with laughter. There is never a dull moment! :-D

This one has their names for those who have trouble keeping them straight.
Emily and Hannah do not like being mixed up. Caleb and Joshua love it because they think they can play tricks on people!

Breg Vectra Premium Low Walking Boot

2011-12-27T15:22:00.006-05:00

The walking cast I ordered for my broken heel isn't holding up. I've only been wearing it a few weeks. The velcro has eaten through the foot wrap (aka "sock") and is now rubbing my leg. But, that is OK! Breg offers a 90 day warranty on their boots. The Brace Shop, the company I ordered it from through Amazon (click the boot), is sending me a new boot by mail. I will return the one I've worn out in the mailer they will send me. I am thankful they are sending me the boot right away so I do not have to go without the protection for my heel.

The boot is working! My heel feels SOO much better. I miss walking on the treadmill, but LOVE the new recumbent bike! I had to give up the treadmill due to my heel, but the bike doesn't bother it at all.

MERRY CHRIST-A-MUST!!!

2011-12-23T15:06:00.005-05:00

(Caleb feels his smile is goofy, so he tries not to smile for the camera.)

MERRY CHRIST-A-MUST!!!
from our family to you and yours!

Isaiah 9:6-7 For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given: and the government shall be upon His shoulder: and His Name shall be called Wonderful, Counselor, The Mighty God, The Everlasting Father, The Prince Of Peace. Of the increase of His government and peace there shall be no end, upon the throne of David, and upon his Kingdom, to order it, and to establish it with Judgment and with Justice from henceforth even for ever. The zeal of the LORD of hosts will perform this.

Christmas Picture Outtakes

2011-12-23T15:05:00.000-05:00

Hannah is 3!!!

2011-12-22T20:18:00.011-05:00

Clint took Hannah off for a few minutes so we could set up for her birthday. She had been waiting on her birthday ALL day. I guess she thought we weren't going to give her one when Clint took her to the store. As they left, she asked him "Dad, what did you do with my birthday?"

Her first look when she got back home!

"Hannah, whose birthday is it?" "Mine!"

Her pony cake. I was very tired when I made this cake.

Hannah waiting to see her cake come out.

Hannah blew her own candle out this year!

Hannah stopped opening a present for a picture.

Hannah tired of being asked to look at the camera! :-)

Clint assisting with opening Hannah's present. Hannah LOVES hair, and this set has a lot of hair and a brush. She kept saying over and over "And, it has a brush!"

"Is Dad ever going to finish cutting off those ties?"

Psalms 145:9 The LORD is good to all; He has compassion on all He has made.

Another Bedroom Shot with Ceiling Fan

2011-12-22T10:38:00.004-05:00

This is the new ceiling fan for our bedroom. Clint installed it a 2-3 months ago.
Clint picked out the fan while I stayed home nursing my broken heel.
I really like it!

The goal of this command is love, which comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith. I Timothy 1:5

Weekend 3

2011-12-19T11:49:00.004-05:00

So Clint tells the children they can get out the "new" sports equipment while he finishes up something. I look out the window and see them gathered around in a circle pulling stuff out with heads bent over....and Emily in the middle of them determinedly practicing her swing!! "OH CLINT!! You need to get out there!!!" :-D I took this picture later so I'd remember the moment.

He has nearly a whole team!

Clint pitching to Emily

Hannah

Weekend 2

2011-12-19T11:39:00.005-05:00

Clint making a video of our children with his phone.

Amanda teaching her little brother she is still stronger.

Emily wanted to slide down the ramp at the skate park, but was afraid. Joshua and Caleb spotted her.

My girl Bethany Hope

Hannah and a wayward curl

(Brandon had to work.)

Weekend

2011-12-19T10:45:00.002-05:00

There is joy in filling up a playground with your children!

Emily touching the sky! It still wasn't high enough for her!

It was pure delight for both of them!

There is something so very appealing about a big, strong, tough man who can be tender for a child.

If I hadn't been wearing the cast and since no one else was around, I would have been playing on the playground equipment too!

God's Provision

2011-12-18T17:38:00.005-05:00

Insurance is not meant to replace everything you lost. It is meant to greatly reduce the financial blow due to the natural disaster. Clint and I were able to buy most of the things we needed with the home owner's insurance, but there were still many things that did not get purchased.

There is also the challenge of making the claim list. It has to be done within a certain time frame while many other things need your immediate attention. We did the best we could to write down everything we had lost, but dozens of items were left off of the list simply because we did not think of them in time to add them. We think of something else that was forgotten nearly every week. Many people with fire losses tell us this goes on for years!

One of the things we lost and have not been able to replace was our sporting goods for the children. We have been keeping an eye out for used items on Freecycle and thrift stores, but had not come across any. We went to Walmart this weekend to look at prices of new equipment, and were disheartened to see how expensive it was.

This afternoon, Clint and I stopped in a new thrift store on 17 in York County and found several bats, 10 baseballs, a softball, 5 gloves, a sports equipment bag, 2 frisbees, and a soccer ball. We got everything for less than $20. God provides!

Angels Unaware?

2011-12-18T17:19:00.003-05:00

No matter what we are doing, if Clint sees someone in need, he will stop to give them a hand. I am very thankful God has made me the wife of such an incredible man.

Hebrews 13:2 Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares

Fox with Suspected Rabies

2011-12-18T16:41:00.010-05:00

Friday night, Clint and I were headed out in his car. When we got about 1/4 mile from our house, I spotted a fox laying down in the gravel on the side of the road. I asked Clint to back up in case it had been hit. The fox did not hide or run away. It walked slowly in front of our car like it was disoriented and then sat there hassling and salivating. Then it walked away from us heading straight down the road. Then it turned around and came back. It seemed very confused. Thanks to our rural upbringing, we recognized this and other signs as "passive" rabies (aka "dumb" rabies.) This is why they tell you to stay away from wildlife. If you can approach it, something is most likely wrong! (The Cujo type rabies that attacks is called "aggressive" rabies.)

Concerned for our children, community, wildlife and pets, we called a neighbor who lives very close to where the fox was so he could bring a gun to put it down. He wasn't home. So we called our son, Brandon, who brought our gun. While we waited, we watched the fox alternate between wandering back and forth in the road in front of us and laying in the grass. There is no doubt in our minds that fox had rabies.

Being very slow in my cast, I sat in the car while Clint got the gun and loaded it while standing in the road between the cars. That, of course, is when the fox came out again. It stared, not moving, at Clint, and I yelled him a warning so he'd be aware in case it attacked. The gun wasn't ready. That is the last thing I remember. The next thing I know, I was fighting to keep the car on the road yelling "Did I get it?!!!" It seems I went on auto pilot, got my bulky cast through the tight space between the steering wheel and the seat, put the car in gear, and ran the fox over just off the road. While I am surprised at how fast instinct took over, I don't feel bad about it. Rabies had already claimed the fox. An animal doesn't come back from that. I just stopped the virus from spreading.

Clint finished it off quickly. I am thankful and relieved it didn't get away where it could harm people and other animals.

A few months ago, Brandon told me I was "a sweet and gentle person, and hurting something just isn't in [my] nature." When I took off in the car, Clint said Brandon looked at him in amazement and asked "Did SHE just run over it?!!! Mom did that?!!" Hey, it surprised me too!

We called Animal Control. They said unless the fox had bitten someone, there isn't anything they can do other than make note of it in case they have more reports in our area. The Health Department will not pay to do the $300 testing unless a person has been attacked. As a precaution, Clint and I are re-vaccinating all of our livestock and pets.

Get Back Up by Toby Mac

2011-12-16T13:51:00.004-05:00

DC Talk, the group Toby Mac use to be in, was the main way I was able to reach a teen for Christ. The CD I gave her impacted her heart for the Lord. I miss the vibrancy, joy and challenge of working with teens. When the workload for my own family decreases, we will see what the Lord has in store!

Sydney is a 20+ Year Old Cockatiel

2011-12-16T13:29:00.005-05:00

Sydney was born sometime before 1991 and was purchased as a gift for a 8th grade girl. She grew up and left Sydney behind at her parents. Sydney stayed in a room to himself and was left to go in and out of his cage at his own will. Sometimes he'd walk into the room where they'd be sitting, look around, and then head back to his cage. His former owners told us he can dance around a little hat to the Mexican Hat Dance. Somewhere along the way, his wing was broken. I have to keep the feathers on that wing short to help him keep his balance and for cleanliness.

Since he can't fly, he JUMPS when he is afraid. This has been distressing to me! It's one of those things you should tell someone about! WOW! Sydney will fall to the floor with a thud, so now I try to keep him low over a broad surface. It appears that some time before we acquired him, this caused him to break a joint in one foot. If he loses his balance, he will fall on his back and not be able to right himself easily. I watch over him carefully in our busy household to keep him safe. I really like the old man. I enjoy the quieter moments when I can get him out of his cage and let him hang out with me. He's my "Let's chill!" buddy.

When someone asks him to perch on their finger, he make gestures at their fingers with his beak to warn them to be careful of his wing. He can sometimes be grumpy and will refuse to perch when he is not interested in coming out of his cage. He sleeps a lot, but he IS older than dirt! He seems interested in watching our other birds, but not in closely interacting with them.

Cockatiels can live to be 30+ years old, so we will take good care of Sydney and see how long he blesses our lives.

If God hears Christian’s prayers, why aren’t they answered?

2011-12-15T12:02:00.007-05:00

1John 5:14-15 "And this is the confidence that we have in Him, that, if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us; and if we know that He hears us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of Him."

If God hears Christian’s prayers, why aren’t they answered?

1.) James 1:6-8 “But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does.” We don’t believe.

2.) James 4:3 "When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.” Many times I have had to pray God would help me to get to the place where I could let go of my will (way). Not only does He helps me get on board with His will for my life, but He makes me happy with His will! We can also let someone else's desires (putting them before God), get in the way of God's will for our lives.

3.) Isaiah 59:1-2 “Surely the arm of the Lord is not too short to save, nor His ear too dull to hear. But your iniquities (sins) have separated you from God; your sins have hidden his face from you so that He will not hear.” We have to stop doing what is wrong and live the way God wants. Anger, bitterness, unforgiveness, resentment, selfishness, any habitual sin will all affect how God hears our prayers and how He works in our lives. I like a close fellowship with the Holy Spirit and find it a strong motivator to stay close to Him.

4.) Proverbs 21:13 “If a man shuts his ears to the cry of the poor, he too will cry out and not be answered.” We have to live generously in a way that reflects His love. Jesus first, Others second, and Yourself last=JOY!

5.) John 15:7 “If you remain in me and my word remains in you, ask whatever you wish and it will be given to you.” We have to live according to His Word with truth, humbleness, love, generosity, forgiveness, kindness, peace, self-control, etc.

6.) Ezekiel 14:3 “Son of man, these men have set up idols in their hearts and put wicked stumbling blocks before their faces. Should I let them inquire of me at all?” We have idols (things more important than God and His will) in the way. We will not receive His blessing or fellowship unless we are willing to humble (letting go of "self" aka pride) ourselves and do as He leads.

James 3:17 “The wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield.”

Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

2 Corinthians 3:18 “All of us are looking with unveiled faces at the glory of the Lord as if we were looking in a mirror. We are being transformed into that same image from one degree of glory to the next degree of glory. This comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.”

God wants you to be more Christ-like, not more self-like. That means you have to let go of some things and become something/someone else. This can be both a painful and joyful process. It can be especially painful when we hold on to our pride (self) and resist Him. Pride, especially spiritual pride, is very dangerous: I Timothy 3:6 "...he may become conceited and fall under the same judgment as the devil."

I Peter 5:5, Proverbs 30:32, Luke 14:7-11, Proverbs 11:2

When a Husband Seeks the Lord

2011-12-14T16:42:00.009-05:00

Over a decade ago, Clint told me he felt the Lord was leading him to move from a good job with a division of a global company where he had finally achieved seniority to work day shift....to work in a new place. As a wife and a mother, it frightened me. I had many questions. Clint maintained his belief it was the Lord telling him to go and left that job for the new one.

The first place started going under and laying off people within two weeks of him leaving!! Not only that, but Clint was placed in a position where he could help some of his friends find jobs as well. We have also had many ministry opportunities through this company. And, this smaller, more personal company has been a big blessing to us when we have gone through difficult things like miscarriages, deaths, floods, fires, etc. I learned a lot about trusting the Lord's work through my husband because of that experience.

When Clint is seeking the Lord on something, my goal is to not influence his decision or hinder the work of the Holy Spirit. I try to wait for dialogue and questions. When I can answer them, I do. If I can not answer them, I try to learn more so I can better help him. I give him honest, sometimes painfully honest, feedback when he is bouncing things around. When he grows quiet, I know the Holy Spirit is at work. This is the point where I have to be patient and keep in prayer. I ask the Lord to draw me to the same place as He is Clint. When Clint tells me what he has decided, I might ask a few questions, but know the decision is from the Lord. Most of the time, we are in the same place.

Husbands are fallible. It is difficult for us women to trust men who forget things and make mistakes. We live with them, see the things they do, and those things are often in our minds. "Lord, you want me to trust this Knucklehead, who just backed into the satellite dish with the RV, on something this big?" It's not easy to trust the Lord when we are looking at our husbands.

We have to keep our focus on one thing though: God is infallible and knows how to communicate His perfect will with fallible men with pure hearts and motives who are diligently seeking Him.

Titus 2:3-5 Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.

Matthew 23:12 For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.

Clint fixed the satellite dish. :-)

Bedroom

2011-12-14T16:13:00.003-05:00

I have been telling people for a while about the bedroom makeover, but have neglected to put up any pictures. The goal was to make the bedroom look like a romantic beach cottage. I didn't want it screaming "BEACH," but to have the subtle hints of it here and there.

I tried to pull in elements from our times at the beach: shells, lighthouses, bottles, etc. We went with white furniture and added two white wall cabinets (that still need crown molding). I found a comforter set I liked and curtains to match from Wamart.

The headboard is made of a set of very old shutters found and purchased from our neighborhood's old firehouse. The shelf over the bed holds romantic statues with other favorite thrift store "finds." There is still a bit more to finish, but it is mostly done.

I knew I had met my goal when one of the children walked in and said "It feels like we are back at the beach!"Clint loves the room. It is not overly feminine and includes elements he likes. He has complimented me on how it has come together time and time again.

Of course, as soon as I make the bed, there is at least one child on it! :-)

Empty Me Jeremy Camp

2011-12-13T12:11:00.000-05:00

Mercy Me-Bring the Rain

2011-12-13T11:57:00.000-05:00

Our God is Tenderhearted Towards Us

2011-12-13T06:53:00.009-05:00

Psalm 139:3 Thou compassest my path and my lying down, and art acquainted with all my ways.

Psalm 56:8 Thou tellest my wanderings: put thou my tears into thy bottle: are they not in thy book?

Psalm 103:8-14 The LORD is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love. He will not always accuse, nor will he harbor his anger forever; he does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us. As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him; for he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust.

How we need to be towards others:

Colossians 3:12-14 Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

Ephesians 4:17-32 So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more.You, however, did not come to know Christ that way. Surely you heard of him and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. He who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with his own hands, that he may have something to share with those in need. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

Squirrels

2011-12-13T06:49:00.001-05:00

Clint and I fed these young squirrels at Newport News City Park's campground.

Seeking and Knowing God's Will

2011-12-12T07:36:00.006-05:00

This has been a very spiritually intense and emotionally draining time in Clint's and my lives. We have thoroughly examined our hearts for any ill feelings or motives. We have petitioned Him to keep us from sin, to let His name be glorified all the way through, and to show us clearly what He wants from us. We have searched Scripture for answers and direction.

We have wrestled with and prayed the Lord would help us work through anger and recover from the shock and deep hurt so we can have a clear heart for the Holy Spirit to work in and through. Through and only through His help, we were able to not only forgive, but have a deep love, compassion, and understanding for the person who deeply hurt us.

We have laid down our desires and asked Him to show us what He wants. Constantly, Clint has asked to be given the wisdom of Solomon. We have asked Him to give us insight into other the other person's thinking, to allow us to hear beyond their words into their heart, so we could understand their position. He has shown us things about him and then verified the information to erase any doubts.

Clint has dreamed an incredible dream that was easily interpreted to give us a vision of what is on the other side of this situation. I have been given knowledge of what God is planning to do through this. Like Gideon, we have put out fleeces and sought confirmation.

God has answered every single prayer every single step of the way. Not a single thing we have asked for was withheld from us. Seeing God work in our lives in these ways has been incredible! Our love for Him and each other is stronger than ever. We have learned new things about ourselves. Our children are learning too: Yesterday Amanda and Brandon said they could see the Holy Spirit had finished burdening us to gain information and seek God's will. They said they could see we are closer to the Lord and that our love for each other has deepened. God is good; He is very good indeed! His name is worthy to be praised!

Romans 8:6 For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace.

I Peter 5:5b-10 ...All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings. And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.

Philippians 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Praise You in This Storm by Casting Crowns

2011-12-09T15:38:00.000-05:00

Our God is Greater by Chris Tomlin

2011-12-09T15:23:00.001-05:00

What It Means to Be a Christian

2011-12-08T11:20:00.000-05:00

Christians
by Maya Angelou

When I say... "I am a Christian"
I'm not shouting "I'm clean livin'."
I'm whispering "I was lost,
Now I'm found and forgiven."

When I say.. "I am a Christian"
I don't speak of this with pride.
I'm confessing that I stumble
and need Christ to be my guide.

When I say.. "I am a Christian"
I'm not trying to be strong.
I'm professing that I'm weak
And need His strength to carry on.

When I say... "I am a Christian"
I'm not bragging of success.
I'm admitting I have failed
And need God to clean my mess.

When I say... "I am a Christian"
I'm not claiming to be perfect,
My flaws are far too visible
But, God believes I am worth it.

When I say... "I am a Christian"
I still feel the sting of pain.
I have my share of heartaches
So I call upon His name.

When I say... "I am a Christian"
I'm not holier than thou,
I'm just a simple sinner
Who received God's good grace, somehow!

Basic Bible Lesson on Love

2011-12-07T21:54:00.005-05:00

It troubles me to no end when Christians involved in ministries do not know the basics of God's Word. If you do not understand what the Bible says about love, then how can you fulfill the greatest commandment (Matthew 22:36-40)? How can you have fully comprehended a study on I Corinthians 13 (the chapter of love)? This is basic Bible teaching anyone in ministry should know. 2 Timothy 2:15 Open your Bible and study!

There are four Ancient Greek words for love: agápe, éros, philía (aka phileo), and storgē.

Agape is Godly love. This is the kind of selfless love God wants us to have for other believers and is spelled out in I Corinthians 13. It is the kind of love that strives to put others feelings and needs before your own. It is difficult to find this kind of love in your heart when you list their sins against you. It is easier to find when you focus on the love God has for you in spite of the sins you have done against Him and others. This kind of love requires a sacrifice. This is the kind of love that exists and endures when things are not fun or easy. In humans, it is fallible. We will fail each other in this God-love from time to time, but it should resurface. God's love for us does not fail or waiver because He and His love are perfect.

Phileo (philia) love is the loyal love of friends and family. It is known as the "brotherly" love. It is a strong connection and affection to someone. You can have agape love for your enemies but you can not have phileo love for them. Agape love will endure, but phileo love can be crushed by cruelty. Phileo is where Philadelphia, the city of brotherly love, got its name. Phileo is "love" and adelphos (delphia) means "brother" in the Greek text.

Eros is the Greek word for passionate physical desire and longing for someone. This is the romantic love between couples. It is not mentioned in Scripture, but is where we get the English word erotic from.

Storge is a love of acceptance and understanding. I have also heard it described as an genuine caring and loyalty that exists for a difficult person because you comprehend their behavior or struggles. I have a friend that does things she knows she should not do that trouble me to no end, but I care for her and will defend her because I understand what she has been through and what she is seeking. I also have this kind of love for a dog who bites me frequently. She came from an abusive situation and knows nothing better from human hands than what she has seen. I don't like getting bit and dread working with her, but I patiently put up with it because I understand why she bites. When someone talks bad about this dog's behavior, I defend her.

Having love for someone does not mean you put yourself or your family in harm's way. Harm can be physical, mental or emotional. I find it very plausible a husband can have agape love for his wife and still keep himself and his children away from her abusive behaviors. In fact, I know a woman who has agape love for her exhusband. She was lied to, cheated on, stolen from, beaten until she was put into the hospital, etc, etc, etc!!....and still, she asked me to pray for her exhusband's soul. Her love and concern for his well being after all of the abuse she took is something I will never forget. She was well within her rights to end the relationship to prevent more abuse, but she maintains abiding agape love by caring for his well being and salvation.

Protect Your Children: Educate Yourself on the Parental Rights Issue

2011-11-29T19:49:00.002-05:00

http://www.parentalrights.org

What's New...

2011-11-29T10:40:00.005-05:00

Only four of our children got the virus. Amanda, Brandon, Bethany, Clint and I managed to escape it. It was really rough on those who had it though. It took four days to go through them, but they were each only sick from 12 hours to a little over 24 hours.

We had a wonderful Thanksgiving even though Clint and Brandon were both called into work. We found out late Wednesday afternoon and had our meal together Wednesday evening. I usually cook the day before, so we were pretty much ready. I roasted two turkeys which I rubbed with a herbal mix. They received rave reviews!

That was the first time our family was not together at once on a holiday, but that's alright. There are soldiers who are away from their country every year. There are families not together this year because someone died. I can rejoice in what I do have rather than complain about what I don't have.

Since I need to be off my broken heel, Amanda canned the turkey stock this year. I had made the stock, cleaned the jars and was ready to can when my heel started having a weird pain. I asked her if she could take over. She readily agreed and did a fantastic job! We now have 30 quarts of gourmet turkey stock on our pantry shelves. Our family cooks from "scratch" a lot. We use so much stock; it is easier to make the volume we need after roasting turkeys. I save peelings from vegetables for a few months to put into our stock which gives it a higher nutritional content and a better flavor. What is leftover after the stock is drained off is greedily gobbled up by our dogs. Waste not; want not!

I made a very good start on organizing the front shed. The main job left now is for me to sort our huge library of books, decide which will stay and get them organized on the shelves. We have many, many, many books due to our wide range in ages, interests, reading levels and our homeschooling. I am hoping to reduce it by half.

My birthday was very good! I feel very loved and appreciated. Thank you to everyone who contributed to make it a special day!

Happy Thanksgiving from Our Gang to Yours!

2011-11-23T09:11:00.003-05:00

I will sing unto the LORD, because he hath dealt bountifully with me.
Psalms 13:6

But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
I Corinthians 15:57

Shared Article: The war at home

2011-11-21T14:17:00.002-05:00

This article is written about Debbie, whose family I asked for prayer for in an earlier post. If you are the victim of domestic violence, please get help immediately. The unimaginable CAN happen. ~Wendy

found at: http://hamptonroads.com/2011/11/war-home

By R. Paul Speece

Once again, the ugly head of domestic violence has shown its vicious face right here in our own backyard ("Man kills wife, self in Suffolk neighborhood," Hampton Roads, Nov. 9).

A deranged, destitute husband selfishly took the life of a beautiful, caring mother of their two children in order to satisfy misplaced anger and exert ultimate control - which he was quickly losing during slow judicial proceedings.

Her name was Deborah M. Wigg, formerly an audit manager with McPhillips, Roberts & Deans. She was a wife of 15 years, a mother, daughter and sister who, at the end of this tragedy, was left with a fatal gunshot wound to the head.

Her estranged husband ended his own agony with a self-inflicted gunshot.

How tragic it is that not only were two lives lost, but two young children are traumatized and left without the love, care and guidance of parents. They will be scarred for life.

Six years ago, my sister-in-law's life was senselessly ended at the hand of my brother, leaving two children devoid of the care of loving parents and a wake of bewilderment among family and friends.

I have lived nearly 57 years and have experienced the violent murders and self-inflicted deaths of four highly educated, successful professionals: my brother, a U.Va. graduate; his wife, a librarian; another, a dear friend, associate and a credentialed CPA; and her husband, a successful entrepreneur and former teacher.

I have lived through a period encompassing the violence of Vietnam, the Gulf Wars, Iraq and Afghanistan, and the only deaths I know personally stem from domestic violence.

In both of these unimaginable cases, I sensed where the violence was headed and was unable to stop it, resulting in the disruption of the lives of all who knew the victims. They were left shellshocked.

The perpetrators were in front of the courts where the judiciary knew that these angry husbands not only beat their wives but subsequently threatened them with guns. They were allowed to keep known weapons or could find new ones, even after being incarcerated and accountable to the law enforcement system. They failed to pay court-ordered child support, were dismissed by their hired attorneys, showed evidence of illegal drug use but were still allowed to roam the streets plotting their massacre, letting their anger percolate to a volatile crescendo, ultimately violating impotent protective orders.

Deborah Wigg's estranged husband failed to show up at court for the hearing dealing with the assault charge. The judge dismissed an unfounded counterclaim against her and continued the case against him to a later date. She would never have the chance to get to that hearing. Five days later she was killed by the freed ticking time bomb she once loved.

Where are the courts, which are fully aware of these issues, in protecting the innocent?

Where does common sense intercede to guide implementation of the law?

What we as a society are doing to stop the violence is anemic and ineffective, resulting in four tragic deaths within my microcosm.

As president of Samaritan House Inc., in Virginia Beach, the largest organization in the state dedicated to the causes of domestic violence and homelessness, I know what those dedicated workers in the trenches of this sordid business do daily to provide hope, healing and change to victims. They are effective in dealing with people at risk. They struggle to stop the violence and work toward prevention of future violence. I am extremely proud to be affiliated with them.

If you think you are immune to the atrocities of domestic violence, you are not. It is highly likely you know someone whose life is impacted by it, because it knows no boundaries.

Reach out to Samaritan House's victim-advocacy program; call the hotline at (757) 430-2120; get involved with prevention education; or advocate politically for stronger domestic violence legislation. Help stop the senseless ending of life at the hands of family members. You can make a difference.

A Virus Came to Visit

2011-11-20T21:29:00.005-05:00

Emily (4) came down with a sudden severe headache and stomach ache Friday. It had us concerned because two different friends' children has similar symptoms and ended up in the hospital. Her fever shot up very quickly to 104.7 and stayed there for a few hours. She threw up 5-6 times, slept for a long time and woke up to her bouncy, cheerful self! The worst of it lasted about five hours. She ran a low grade temp for a while after but the vomiting had stopped.

Hannah (2) came down with it Friday night/early Saturday morning. She threw up every hour on the hour all night. Sometimes she threw up 20 minutes apart. It was a long night. I had to give her a hydrating enema with some anti-emetic in it. In the 12 hours Hannah was constantly vomiting, she did not complain once. All she wanted to do was sleep. She slept in my arms part of the night, Clint's for part and her own bed some. I was listening to the girls talk in their beds last night thinking how wonderful it was to hear them chatting and giggling again.

A rise in body temperature is the body's natural defense mechanism against germs. I believe this is why the virus was killed off so quickly in Emily's body, but has lasted longer in the others.

Joshua and Caleb have it now. They are very ready for this unwanted guest to leave as soon as possible. I am missing the boy sounds of wars, and crashes, and battles coming from their room.

Japanese & British Data Show Vaccines Cause Autism

2011-11-19T09:22:00.001-05:00

http://childhealthsafety.wordpress.com/2009/06/03/japvaxautism/
article from 2009

Heavy Hearts

2011-11-09T10:54:00.008-05:00

A friend of Clint's and mine from school was murdered last night by her estranged husband. The man then shot himself. I have known of this family since elementary school. Her brother was in my class from first grade to graduation and we are still in touch now and then. Clint met him at Forest Glen and also has stayed in touch through Facebook. I got to know her again through Facebook and found her to be a lovely person with a sweet spirit. It cuts our hearts to think of this family hurting.

I am asking you to lift up prayers for the Brown family. Please pray for her two boys who have woken up today to learn both of their parents are gone. Please pray for our many mutual friends who are struggling with the news.

Daddy is HOME!!!

2011-11-03T08:14:00.001-04:00

This is our favorite part of every day!

Homeschool Boot Camp

2011-11-02T14:50:00.004-04:00

Brandon: "I don't mean to offend you, Mom, but your homeschooling was like a boot camp compared to college. I not only received the highest grades in my classes, but I also had to help the teacher today. This stuff is easy compared to what you taught me!"

I am smiling!

Rough Days

2011-11-01T10:02:00.008-04:00

When I look at fires, floods, sleepwalking, miscarriages, I have a pretty good idea of what constitutes as a BAD day. Yesterday wasn't technically bad, but it got to me...

I started the day with less than four hours sleep. That should have been my first clue.

The night before, I had resuscitated a puppy that had no signs of life. I mistakenly thought he had become pushed away from his litter and become too cold. After two hours, I had him breathing and moving only to realize he had fading puppy syndrome which would take his life in spite of my efforts. Clint put him down.

Then I got news about two friends' health that made me very, very sad. My heart is very burdened for them and their families.

Emily threw a cup and hit Hannah in the head. I am now convinced that wars begin by sisters. I also thanked the Lord I did not have a sister yesterday. :-)

Caleb learned a bad word from a movie. He experimented with it yesterday. I corrected him...

Homeschool after that was like beating your head against a wall. It is not very productive, is painful, but you can't stop yourself from trying.

I got a dirty letter for a bill I do not even owe.

I was summoned to jury duty for the same time Clint and I had planned to go away for my birthday.

I keep getting e-mails from people on the west coast asking me how to extract pot. I got another one yesterday. It makes me wonder if my name is circulating around some strange marijuana group!

This came two days after DEA agents flew low in a helicopter over our neighborhood for two days. LOL! They spent a good amount of time over our place. The locked driveway gate must make law officials concerned. They'd be right. I am trying to keep the FEDs from barrelling down my driveway and running over my children as they play; FEDEX that is.

Granted, I've had many days worse than yesterday, but yesterday had me frazzled. The hits kept coming. I am thankful for godly friends and a loving husband who don't give up on me during the days I want to give up. I am thankful for a God who keeps His promises.

You will also have days that challenge you. You will be stretched beyond your limit. Hold on, count on the Lord to keep His promises, and talk to the people you can count on. When we are stretched, we grow.

Ephesians 3:19-20 May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God. Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.

Wildlife Cam

2011-10-25T08:05:00.002-04:00

In the 17 years we have lived here, this is the fourth squirrel we've seen.

Wild boar? Nope, just our potbelly pigs.

I was tickled to get a good shot of the fox.

Crooked Lives

2011-10-19T06:09:00.001-04:00

If you come by our house next spring, you will see long and slightly crooked rows of alternating tulips and daffodils.

Because I am still having issues with the shoulder injury, I needed help digging the trenches for the flowers. Caleb, my ten year old son, eagerly volunteered. He worked tirelessly to give me a hand and was so proud of his work. One trench is twenty feet long. All in all, he's probably dug 50 feet of trenches. He goofed on one trench though. Not only did he put it about 6" away from where I needed it, he had a definite and drunken curve at the end from where he grew tired.

I could have asked Caleb or someone else to fix those trenches. I thought about it. I like things to be done correctly, but I decided I'd rather have them crooked so I remember how hard he worked, even when he was tired, just to help me. I will remember taping up the eight blisters he didn't tell me about until the work was finished. I'll think about how he wanted to be with me doing hard work rather than playing with his siblings. Yeah, when I see those crooked flowers I'll smile and think about how very much I love that little boy.

There is beauty in the imperfection.

I wonder if God ever sees our efforts to please Him in the same light. Not perfect lives, but made more beautiful because we tried.

Gourds

2011-10-14T15:14:00.005-04:00

Every time my children get seeds, they ask me "Can we plant it?" I've had a standard answer for several years for seeds that don't go in the vegetable garden, "Sure, go plant it in the flowerbed." They usually don't come up!

This year, Caleb planted ONE gourd seed in the flowerbed in the front. That vine not only overtook that flowerbed, but another one beside it and grew onto the deck furniture as well! It was something else to see! These are the gourds produced from that single seed. There are at least one hundred seeds in each gourd. Can you imagine how much fruit we could have if we planted each of these seeds?

Galations 6:9 And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.

(If you want a gourd or some seeds, come by the house this weekend and I will be happy to give you one. The mere thought of what havoc the children can cause with this many gourd seeds scares me! :-)

Caution: Children At Play

2011-10-14T15:08:00.004-04:00

You can buy the sign here.

Weekend

2011-10-13T08:04:00.010-04:00

Caleb is a blonde haired, blue eyed version of his Daddy!

This weekend, we hope to finish Joshua's and Caleb's bunk beds that were started last spring right before the barn fire. They never got finished because we had to meet the investigators, file paperwork, clean up the debris and then do the shopping to replace the contents which consisted of 550+ line items. The bed part was built and painted, but we are finally going to add a desk and shelves under the beds as the boys requested.

Clint and I are looking forward to a relaxing weekend at home. Drop by and see us! :-)

1 John 3:18 Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.

Courageous: Honor Begins At Home

2011-10-12T09:11:00.005-04:00

Clint and I saw Courageous: Honor Begins At Home last night with our son, Brandon. It was much better than I expected!

We had heard the movie's overall theme was aimed at men so we wanted to take Brandon with us. While the movie does deal with a lot of serious issues facing men and their families, there are also messages for women. There's also a lot to laugh at as humor is interjected throughout to help the audience deal with the heavier issues. Someone carefully crafted this film, and it shows.

Being a girl who enjoys action, the movie grabbed my attention from the first breath stealing scene. I was hanging on Clint's arm as one man fought to hold onto the side of his truck as a thug tried to steal it. When the audience and I realized why the man was fighting so hard to stay with the truck, there was an audible gasp in the theatre. Javier had the entire theatre laughing out loud with his "...y lemonaaaaaadaaaaaa!" It's been a long time since I've seen an audience as engaged in a movie as they were this one.

I've read a lot of reviews on this movie. Many of them knock the film because it contains a Christian message. I have watched Hindu movies with Hindu messages throughout. I don't believe that way, so I ignored it and still enjoyed the movie's storyline. I didn't come out of the movie hating Hindus for trying to share their beliefs with me. It was still a good story. It's up to me to decide how much to take and how much to leave behind when I walk away from a movie.

When I consider a movie's worth, I consider: Is the movie interesting? Does it capture and hold your attention? Are the scenes well scripted and easy to understand? Does the story flow well? Do the actors do a believable job portraying their character? I really do not enjoy "over-done" action scenes, so an important question for me is: Are the action scenes reasonable? Does the movie evoke a response in the audience? Do the camera angles make the scenes interesting? Courageous is a yes to every single one of those questions.

When the movie ended in the theatre, the audience sat in their seats for a long time. Quiet. Still. Then they clapped. How often does that happen?

I encourage you to go see the movie.

Around Here Fall 2011

2011-10-11T09:50:00.005-04:00

Since we got back from vacation, things have been chaotic on the home front. I had an allergic reaction to the pool and jacuzzi chemicals which explains some recurring issues I had as a teen. As usual, the congestion went straight to my ears and became infected. I still have some tinnitus with a little fluid, but am getting my energy level back. Now to catch up on my to do list! I hate getting sick because the household suffers so much, and then there is so much to do to get it back to normal. I was asked to do two television interviews for women who have had children over 40, but did not return the forms due to the ear infections.

Brandon has been given more hours lately which helped him pay for the next round of classes that start at the end of the month. He has already learned so much in his chosen field that it is like speaking a foreign language when talking to him. I am impressed with all that he has accomplished on his own.

Yesterday Amanda had a birthday! The little girl who was born six hours after the doctor grumpily told me to stay home because I was "most definitely not in labor" is 17! My thoughts often drift back to the major sleepwalking episode that had her missing for nine long hours a couple of years ago. I am so thankful she is home. She enjoyed the surprise party we threw her and loves her brand new laptop. On birthdays at our house, the birthday child has no chores. Amanda made sure we remembered that!!

Joshua and Caleb are much taller than when summer started. I am constantly thinking Caleb is Joshua because he has shot up that much. My brain can't keep up with all of the changes! Joshua is still the happy, bright boy he has always been. Caleb has taken off in school. I have been buying him books of projects he can build with materials around the house. I see woodworking tools in his future! Both boys are a tremendous help now.

Bethany is still our little lady. She is funny and has a great attitude. She enjoys helping me with the younger girls. I am continuing her instruction in herbal medicine and first aid. She has long been graduated from the Easy Bake and now uses the oven. She races to Clint and I to be the first one to kiss us goodnight.

Emily and Hannah are growing and learning. Both are writing their names and learning letter sounds. They gave me a scare last week! A car was sitting at the end of our long driveway. It was the same color as Clint's car, so the girls thought it was their Daddy and took off for him right when I had gone into the house for something. Bethany realized it wasn't Clint and brought them back.

We have until the 19th to file claims for the fire insurance. We still have some things to get off of the list before the time is up, so it's a very busy time. We have three of the five sheds organized and in use. We need to organize the other two and set them up so they will be functional. We hope to tackle that this winter.

Clint, Brandon and I are heading to see Courageous: Honor Begins at Home tonight. We feel strongly that we need to support these kinds of movies. We have a family camping trip planned to celebrate the end of the fire insurance claim. Then we have a bonfire/cookout planned at our house. Clint and I have a romantic weekend planned too. Then the holidays will be here! I am looking forward to the holiday homeschool lessons, crafts, decorating, baking, storytelling, and etc.

Prayer requests: That our family will grow in the wisdom of the Lord and seek to do His will at every opportunity. We are asking the Lord to give us a clear plan of what He wants from us in the next few years. We are also asking God, if it is His will, to bless us with another child, and if not that, to open the door to adopting a sibling group. Adopting is something we have wanted to do for a long time. We have the love, energy and resources. God will have to provide the finances because adoption is not cheap. Ask Him to open that door wide for us.

If you haven't dropped us a line in a while, please do! contentmentacres@yahoo.com

Enjoying the Sunshine!

2011-10-10T12:38:00.002-04:00

Sunday, I caught the boys (Joshua 12 and Caleb 10) giving a "rocket ride" to the girls (Emily 4 and Hannah 2). How much fun it is to have older siblings!! The boys enjoyed it as much as the girls did!

Because we started school in the middle of summer, we are ahead in our homeschool lessons. We were able to take off during the nice weather last week. I love the freedom homeschooling gives us to enjoy being active outdoors when the weather is nice. Children laughing and playing outdoors is one of my favorite forms of "nature's music."

Amanda's 17th Birthday!

2011-10-09T21:12:00.003-04:00

We surprised her with a party tonight!!
She didn't have a clue!
her own jelly bellies
Emily was happier when Amanda shared!
Penguin Pillow Pet

her new computer!!!!

Happy Birthday Sweetheart! You are a great joy and add so much to our lives!

On Wildlife Cam

2011-10-09T12:47:00.003-04:00

It's not a coon...

but a fox!

How Do You Slay Your Goliaths?

2011-10-06T11:19:00.002-04:00

My experience tells me that the small stones of God . . . humility, patience, gentleness, truth, prayer, etc . . . are far more powerful than the Saul's armor of defensive anger, control, pride, etc. (Check out 1 Samuel 17 - David and Goliath). So . . . it isn't just about slaying your Goliath but how you slay him. God's way? Or in the flesh? Spirit? Or unsubmitted soul? Am thinking . . . the meek shall inherit the earth. ~Nate Atwood

Thanks to Theresa A. for sharing this!

A Tough Thing

2011-10-04T17:04:00.008-04:00

Today, I had to do something I never thought I'd be able to do. I kind of figured it would happen one day, but I had hoped Clint could always do it when it needed doing. How come the right thing to do is often also the hard thing to do?

Amanda found a tiny kitten writhing in pain and brought it to me. I knew immediately the kitten was dying. I prayed for wisdom to help it, but knew what had to be done because there are certain signs the body gives. When this has happened before, I have been able to call Clint, and he was able to come home to "take care of it." This time, Clint couldn't take care of it. I was faced with two choices: wait until Clint could get here or do it myself. One way extended the suffering, possibly by hours, and the other was not somewhere I wanted to go.

I grew up in a very rural area and have always been practical about the need to put animals down...when it was the men doing it. I can clearly remember many instances when I was a child where it had to be done. Never once did I witness a single man take this aspect of animal stewardship callously. I have seen big, strong men cry when they had to end something's life though. When an animal is suffering and is beyond help, you end the suffering as an act of compassion for the dying creature. It's one of the many creeds of country living and is part of owning livestock. A man who ignores the suffering of his animal is considered to be lowly in character and "not worth his salt."

I battled inwardly. I have never taken one of our animals lives. In fact, when I reconnected with a friend from high school, I apologized AGAIN for hitting his dog with my car 20+ years ago. (I haven't dared speak to his younger brother since that day because I still haven't recovered from the "good cussin'" he gave me. :-) As a herbal healer, my instinct is to increase health and preserve life. Putting an animal down is a long ways from that.

My reasons for NOT doing it were many. I didn't want to take the baby animal's life. I didn't want to cause more suffering if I messed up. I didn't want to see things that would stick with me as I still have very visual, but infrequent, nightmares from a fatal car accident I was at years ago. I didn't want to hurt my children by ending their pet's life or have them think badly of me for doing it. I didn't want to listen to a friend of mine tell me how she could "never do that." I wrestled with these and many other thoughts.

Then I heard that tiny still whisper of the Holy Spirit. "You're selfish."

It dawned on me that I WAS being incredibly selfish. A big clue to that fact was that all of my reasons started with "I." The fact was the kitten needed a quick end to its suffering. If you've ever been in real pain, you know time slows down while you are in the throes of it. Those few minutes while I thought it out probably seemed like hours to the kitten.

So, I did it. I ended the kitten's agony by taking its life with a .22. I thought I'd be a wreck afterwards, but I'm OK. It was a quick and peaceful end to its struggle. I am not happy, but am at peace knowing I didn't force the little cat to wait until Clint could get home hours from now. I couldn't fix the issue, but it is no longer struggling.

I thought Amanda, 16 and already so mature, would look at me differently, but she locked eyes with me for a long, precious moment and said...

"It needed to be done. I am glad you did it. I'll take care of the rest for you."

Storm Preparedness

2011-10-04T14:37:00.008-04:00

With the weather continually declining and our responsibility to our children, we try to stay storm ready. When the power was out for ten days during a sudden ice storm, we were fine. We heated the house and cooked with a kerosene heater, had plenty of water for drinking and cleaning, and had more than enough food stored.

When Hurricane Isabel knocked out power for another ten days, we sailed right through it. We had plenty of food and water. We had a hand pump that gave us water for cleaning. We had plenty of baby necessities. We didn't need to go out and battle the lines and crowds for anything. We did go get ice though. We missed the ice in our drinks!

One of the items we purchased recently was the Black and Decker Storm Station. I really like it. You leave it plugged in, and it lights up as soon as the power goes out. You won't be stumbling around in the dark trying to remember where the flashlight is. This has also alerted us to the power blinking on and off that we would not have even noticed before. It charges your cell phone batteries so you maintain a way to contact emergency services and loved ones. The flashlight comes out so you can use it separately. It has a weather radio so you can keep up with local announcements, weather watches and warnings.

It's large and not very bedroom decor friendly, so I tucked it to one side of a nightstand where it can't be seen, but we can still see the light if it turns on. I am going to use a black permanent marker to put important information on the backside of it. It's a little pricer than some radios, but it offers more and is well made. We are planning to purchase a second one for the first floor of our home.

More Beach Scenery

2011-10-04T08:52:00.004-04:00

part of Wash Woods

Hurricane Irene made more of the stumps visible along the shoreline at low tide.
One night, we came across a truck that was speeding on the sand and hit one of the stumps. His front tire had damage.
dunes at night
Corolla horses
The light was low which is why this is grainy.
This young stallion was showing a bit of an attitude through body language.

Psalm 19:1

The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament sheweth his handywork.

2011-10-01T14:47:00.001-04:00

Homeschooling Survey and Chance to Win $500 Visa Card

2011-09-26T19:07:00.001-04:00

Click here to take the survey. "We need your input to help us better serve you and the homeschooling community. Please take just a minute to participate in our short survey, and you'll help us learn how we can more effectively communicate with and support today's homeschoolers!"

12 THINGS SATAN DOES TO GET VICTORY OVER CHRISTIANS

2011-09-26T11:27:00.003-04:00

I am working my way through me e-mails and didn't want to forget to share this article.

"12 THINGS SATAN DOES TO GET VICTORY OVER CHRISTIANS

1) Keep them busy with non essentials.

2) Tempt them to overspend and go into debt.

3) Make them work long hours to maintain empty life styles.

4) Discourage them from spending family time together, for when their homes disintegrate there is no refuge from work.

5) Over stimulate their minds with television and computers, so they can’t hear God speaking to them."

.... Click here to read the rest.

Online Shark Dissection Lab

2011-09-26T10:35:00.002-04:00

Virtual Shark Lab

My children are doing this lab today as part of their homeschool to go along with our trip to the beach. I also recently found a shark specimen in a jar as a gift for Brandon for $2 in a thrift store that will compliment the lesson.

OBX

2011-09-26T09:04:00.009-04:00

Grave Digger

Oregon Inlet

sea turtle nest

We are back from our 5 bedroom, two master suite, 4 bath beach rental in Duck, NC where we had a wonderful time! We relaxed and played together the entire week! Since most large families require two to three hotel rooms due to state fire codes and occupancy requirements, renting a beach house for a week is a more affordable option. It's also much more comfortable!

We met NEST volunteers who were watching over sea turtle nests about to hatch. They told us if they started hatching while we were there, they'd invite our family to watch!

We got together with two sets of friends, ate new-to-us foods (alligator and Mahi-Mahi), found the Corolla horses again, collected sea shells, explored Oregon Inlet's 4x4 beaches, met new people, found sea glass, swam in the pool, lounged in the hot tub, relaxed in the jacuzzi, played air hockey, ate out, played games, enjoyed shopping, enjoyed the ocean views from our room and balconies, etc, etc. It was a fun eight days!

Study on Health of Vaccinated Children

2011-09-26T09:00:00.001-04:00

Survey Results: Are Unvaccinated Children Healthier?

State of health of unvaccinated children

How to Be a Better Parent in 4 Seconds

2011-09-20T08:03:00.001-04:00

http://www.jonacuff.com/blog/how-to-be-a-better-parent-in-4-seconds/

Mito Awareness Week

2011-09-16T22:37:00.002-04:00

http://attleboro.patch.com/articles/attleboro-family-brings-awareness-to-a-deadly-disease

This is a story about the family of the little girl, Eithene, that I asked prayer for a while back. I learned of Eithene through Luke's mom, Christy.

2011-09-15T19:48:00.004-04:00

Homemade Ice Cream Cake:

bottom layer: whipped cream with crushed Oreo cookies folded into it

middle layer: ice cream sandwiches

top layer: whipped cream with chocolate sprinkles
It takes 15 min to prepare and is always a huge hit!

Clint and I were getting concerned Joshua's bike might not get here in time, but it came last night!Bethany wanted a purple bike with handle bar tassles and a basket. Joshua wanted a blue bike. We ordered them online from Amazon. Bethany's bike was through Amazon and came in two days! Joshua's was through an Amazon vendor and took considerably longer.

You should be able to view the rest of the pictures from their surprise party (and our summer) here:
https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10150212052924811.323092.518109810&l=042b0b8da5&type=1

Contentment Acres

More Photos

Sunset on the James River

Photos

Around Here February 2012

7 Year Old Georgia Girl Fights off Kidnapper at Walmart

Wrapping Paper Tube Battle Feb 2012

1 Corinthians 13: Bible Summary and Study on Love

1 Corinthians 13: Bible Summary and Study on Love

The link above will take you to a Bible lesson with life application on the kind of godly love that should be present in all of our relationships.

The New Wood Stove

Walter Reed Birthplace

Neat Fish Tank

Super Bowl 2012 Half Time Show at Contentment Acres

Paperbackswap.com Link

Housecleaning Tip: Libman Lobby Broom

Rural Tagging

Hannah's Short Speech to Clint

Better Today

How my child went from home school to Harvard and yours can, too.

Keep the Faith

Lowly in Spirit

bRoKeN

Preschool Activity: Making Paint with M&Ms

Communication

Clint's Thoughts on Life with Seven Children

You Are Worthy

This should also affect how we view others.

Jesus firstOthers secondYourself last

In Praise of Homeschools by Aaron Smith

Why I Hate Religion by Spoken Word

In This Home...

Breastfeeding in Public

Quote on Difficult Circumstances

Unwind

January 2012

Being Silly

Gingerbread House

My Very Favorite People

Lose My Soul-Toby Mac

My Brave Son Caleb

Team Asbell

Already a Better Year by Clint

Happy New Year's Eve

Around Here

Hello Kitty Torture

Higher Quality Christmas Photo

Breg Vectra Premium Low Walking Boot

MERRY CHRIST-A-MUST!!!

Christmas Picture Outtakes

Hannah is 3!!!

Another Bedroom Shot with Ceiling Fan

Weekend 3

Weekend 2

Weekend

God's Provision

Angels Unaware?

Fox with Suspected Rabies

Get Back Up by Toby Mac

Sydney is a 20+ Year Old Cockatiel

If God hears Christian’s prayers, why aren’t they answered?

When a Husband Seeks the Lord

Bedroom

Empty Me Jeremy Camp

Mercy Me-Bring the Rain

Our God is Tenderhearted Towards Us

Squirrels

Seeking and Knowing God's Will

Philippians 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Praise You in This Storm by Casting Crowns

Our God is Greater by Chris Tomlin

What It Means to Be a Christian

Basic Bible Lesson on Love

Protect Your Children: Educate Yourself on the Parental Rights Issue

What's New...

Happy Thanksgiving from Our Gang to Yours!

Shared Article: The war at home

A Virus Came to Visit

Japanese & British Data Show Vaccines Cause Autism

Heavy Hearts

Jesus first
Others second
Yourself last